"God wants married couples to know that sex is his gift to them. And God does not give gifts to people so they won’t enjoy them. If he gives you steak, he wants you to savor it. If he gives you wine, he wants you to enjoy it. And when he gives a couple sex in the covenant of marriage, he wants them to indulge in it. The NIV translates the end of Song of Solomon 5:1 this way: “Drink your fill of love.” Why would he tell us to drink up if he didn’t want us to be fully satisfied?"
Matt Chandler, The Mingling of Souls